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Harper Martin
Sex Therapist
Harper Martin promotes evidence-based, pro-diversity perspectives on sexuality for thecandiddate.com.
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4 posts • Last Updated 5/13/25
Widowed four years ago, I tested OurTime's premium plan and talked with three decent, genuine men. It's easy to use, and I'd suggest it to friends over 50. Read More »
I tested DateMyAge, a chat site for the 45+ crowd with video chat and translation. Profiles looked great, but credits cost money and some stories felt off. Read More »
At 69, I joined SilverSingles from a small Georgia suburb, found genuine matches and had one lunch date. Paid plans start at $15 a month and add value. Read More »
A sex therapist of 25-plus years explains how to raise kink with a new or long-term partner, with conversation steps, a slow action plan and aftercare. Read More »

