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Do you turn into a ball of nerves at the thought of planning for a first date? If you need help cutting through those nerves and nailing that first date, check out our advice for planning and navigating first dates with poise and grace.

Here, we teach readers how to make first impressions count so they can get to that second date. Our team, loaded with dating coaches and experts, knows a thing or two about first dates.

You can browse tips and strategies that take the guesswork out of first dates, with advice tailored to both the male and female perspectives. Dive into everything first date-related. Need conversation tips? Outfit choices? You got it.

No matter the type of date, we've got you covered. Our expert advice provides the scoop on how to prepare for first dates and understand all the nuances, like body language and expectations, along the way.

What Our Experts Say:

What Our Experts Say:

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For 30% of Daters, the Free Meal Was the Real Draw

Matthew King

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30% of daters say they took a dinner date just for the free food. Foodie calls span ages, including 1 in 4 adults 65+, and the West leads at 35%.

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Lesbian First Dates: 7 Questions Worth Asking

Charlotte Harris

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Seven first-date questions for lesbians that are fun and show real compatibility, from what she's looking for and her first crush to her exes.

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4 Gay First-Date Fails to Avoid

Noah Miller

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Four first-date mistakes gay men should avoid, like being distracted, raising sex too soon, oversharing, and defaulting to dinner or a movie.

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Going on a First Date With a Woman? 9 Tips for Lesbians

Charlotte Harris

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Nine first-date tips for lesbians, from planning for safety and picking a spot to asking good questions, spotting red and green flags, and following up.

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5 Tips for Men on Nailing the First Kiss

Evelyn Garcia

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Make your first kiss memorable for the right reasons. 5 tips for men: be sure your date wants it, get your mouth ready, mind your hands and time it well.

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