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Let's Talk Intimacy

Ahh, intimacy. The very heartbeat of relationships. Below, we explore not only the meaning but also the significance of intimacy in relationships.

Our goal is to educate readers on how to maintain, deepen, and rebuild emotional and physical closeness throughout the lifecyle of their relationship. And that includes trust building, bonding, and vulnerability.

Intimacy isn’t one-dimensional, meaning it isn’t just about sex. Our expert articles explore the many facets of intimacy, giving readers the tools to water and grow every part at every stage of their romantic partnership.

These articles focus on how partners can promote rapport to create secure, enduring bonds. Our content offers practical guidance to help couples put what they learn about intimacy into action and understand its role in improving connection.

Find that romantic spark and never let it burn out with the help of our guides. Our experts also offer tips about intimacy in the digital world, including hot topics like sexting and AI companionship.

What Our Experts Say:

What Our Experts Say:

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What Celibacy Means When You’re Dating

Nora Adams

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What celibacy means today, why people choose it, from faith to healing or self-discovery, and how shifting attitudes are changing the dating world.

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Relationship in Trouble? Start by Rebuilding the Friendship

Isabella Thomas

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Michael McNulty, a Ph.D. and LCSW, explains why struggling couples should rebuild their friendship first and how calm talks lead to workable compromises.

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Love Quotes to Inspire You

Evelyn Garcia

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A collection of favorite love quotes, from Roger de Rabutin and 1 Corinthians to music and Mia White, with thoughts on why each one is worth remembering.

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Using Erotic Blueprints™ to Understand Your Sex Life

Isabella Thomas

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Sex coach Stacie Ysidro explains how JAIYA's Erotic Blueprints™ show the way you experience pleasure, and what sex coaching actually involves.

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Friends With Benefits: How to Handle the Gray Area

Camila Wright

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Friends with benefits can bring freedom and fun, but also mixed signals and one-sided feelings. Here are the perks, the risks, and tips to keep it healthy.

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Sexting and the Fine Points of Digital Intimacy

Camila Wright

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What sexting is, where the legal and ethical lines fall, how it can strengthen or strain a relationship, and how to protect your privacy when you share.

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Intimacy: Its Types, Challenges, and How to Show It

Camila Wright

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Intimacy goes well beyond sex. Its main types, why it matters in dating, what blocks it, like past trauma or fear of getting hurt, and how to show it.

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What Your Dreams Can Reveal About You and Your Love Life

Lucas Anderson

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At Alchemy of Love, Angela Amias and Daniel Boscaljon use dream analysis to help people heal and connect. See how it works for couples, with tips to try.

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PDA: What Public Displays of Affection Mean

Lucas Anderson

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Why couples hold hands or kiss in public, what PDA says about a relationship, how much is too much, and how to read the room in public or formal settings.

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The Swinger Lifestyle, Explained

Marcus Brown

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What swinging is, how it differs from polyamory, its forms, like soft vs. full swap and same-room vs. separate-room play, and the myths around it.

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Senior Swingers: Answers to the 5 Questions People Ask Most

Emily Rodriguez

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Club owners answer what couples 60+ ask most: are there swingers their age, what to expect at a club, where to meet peers and whether daytime events exist.

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Emma Wilson is the Editor-in-Chief at thecandiddate.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being 'boy crazy,' but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating and relationship expert. Emma brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to thecandiddate.com.

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