Absolute Ability Coaches Men on Confidence and Charisma

The Short Version: Flirting and striking up conversations with women don’t always come naturally to single men. That’s where Absolute Ability comes in: this coaching service for men wants to nudge male daters the right way so they can attract and chat with beautiful women. Founded by Tony Depp, Absolute Ability offers one-on-one coaching plus master classes, and the results can be life-changing!

Dating puts men under plenty of pressure, and some of the hurdles are theirs alone. Under the heteronormative script, the man is expected to lead and to start the conversation, and that expectation can weigh heavily on single guys –– above all on the ones who aren’t natural socializers. Help is out there, though, for men who want to communicate with skill and date better across the board.

Absolute Ability is one such resource. It teaches men a range of techniques, not just for talking with women but also for keeping a relationship strong. Tony Depp started it hoping to help guys like him get past shyness and the nerves that come with talking to someone face to face.

Socializing was already tough for some people, and then the COVID-19 pandemic arrived and made it harder. Among its many effects, COVID took a real toll on social lives. According to Tony, the restrictions that came with it pushed lots of men and women toward online dating. Online dating keeps growing, he said, but it still leaves the core problem untouched: talking with people in person.

“Online dating has always been accessible to everyone. But the problem that men are having now is that they might get dates, but they go out to meet the women and they don’t know how to talk,” said Tony. 

What Tony wants is for men to land dates and to know how to keep a conversation going once they do. He draws on psychology and self-improvement methods to give men confidence as they date.

Tony Depp Is No Typical Dating Coach

Absolute Ability wasn’t an overnight creation. Tony lived through quite a bit before the idea took shape. As a kid and young man, talking to girls was a real struggle for him. He told us that attractive girls made him so anxious he’d end up having panic attacks. Things changed when he boldly turned to the internet for help.

“I studied the top dating experts, followed their advice, and approached thousands of strangers (mostly beautiful women) in every situation imaginable,” said Tony. 

Tony teaches men how to approach women and pursue them successfully.

After that, Tony found the nerve to talk with attractive women and started getting the outcomes he was after. Years down the road, he began helping other guys talk to women (mostly in clubs and bars), and he saw that plenty more men in other settings could use what he had to offer.

Now Tony passes on what he learned so others can succeed in dating too. The biggest thing men miss, he told us, is that looks alone won’t carry you far. Women want to be spoken to in a way they enjoy, and they’ll look past physical traits. Tony’s focus is on the qualities you have inside, not the ones on the outside.

“What matters is that you apply psychology and self-improvement to learn to communicate,” Tony said.

Coaching Sessions and Master Classes

A classic dating mistake is trying to tackle every problem and roadblock alone. Going it solo tends to leave people stressed or burned out, which is why getting professional help when you need it is often recommended. Absolute Ability gives men a choice of coaching sessions and master classes, so they can pick what fits their needs, budget, and comfort level.

The coaching sessions at Absolute Ability are private and personal. They’re the path to choose if you want one-on-one attention. Sessions cover personal growth and come with weekly assignments tailored to you, all aimed at your bigger goal. Modern technology lets Tony run them online, so you can take part without leaving home.

Tony keeps men motivated and holds them accountable.

The master classes, on the other hand, train a group of men who all want to get better. Each week brings two eight-hour live streams plus a group call where everyone talks through shared problems and hurdles. Tony also runs a monthly Q&A. If you want a support group and would rather stay out of the spotlight, the master classes are a good fit. Coaching sessions begin at $1,000 a month; the master classes cost less, at $49 a month.

“Tony is an absolute G,” one Absolute Ability client wrote in a testimonial featured on the site’s homepage. “He helped me work through a few of my problems that I think almost nobody I could ever have access to would have helped. His insights about doing night games in cubicles like "cafe clubs" or how to run a session with the right mentality in coffee shops were humongous benefits to my life in many ways.”

Absolute Ability Has Changed Hundreds of Men’s Dating Lives

Winning women over isn’t rocket science, but it isn’t a walk in the park, either. Learning the right techniques to communicate better moves you closer to your romantic goals –– and that’s exactly what Absolute Ability focuses on.

Tony’s work has made a big, positive difference in his clients’ love lives.

Learning to communicate doesn’t end the work, though. Where you meet women matters just as much. Instead of having men spend their hours in bars or clubs, Tony pushes them toward “daygame,” meaning they meet women in the daytime and talk with them directly, which often makes for more personal encounters.

“Continue to practice talking to strangers as much as possible and then don’t be ashamed to ask them out to show sexual intent,” Tony advised. If you’d like to hire him, you can ask to work with him directly on his website. Not sure about coaching yet? You can still learn from his insights by buying one of his newest books.