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David Lewis
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David Lewis seeks out impactful trends in the modern dating world for thecandiddate.com.
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54 posts • Last Updated 8/12/26
With 60 million people on Tinder each month, filters save time. Start broad, prioritize dealbreakers, avoid common mistakes and see filters on top apps. Read More »
Protect your privacy on dating sites: what apps collect and share, how to read privacy policies, which apps guard data best and red flags of a scam. Read More »
What primary and secondary partners mean in polyamory, how hierarchical and non-hierarchical setups compare, and four common poly misconceptions. Read More »
Nearly 80% of app users feel burned out. Pick a site that fits your relationship goal by weighing user base, safety, cost and messaging features. Read More »
You don't need premium to find good matches. Free ways to sharpen your photos and bio, work the algorithm and write messages that get replies. Read More »
Stuck in endless small talk on dating apps? Step-by-step scripts take you from a personalized opener to a specific date, plus what to do if they go quiet. Read More »
The core elements of good communication, from active listening and honesty to timing, plus conflict skills like I statements and ways to deepen intimacy. Read More »
We asked 3,000 women which men's styles they love most. New Jersey's urban edge won, Pennsylvania came second, and here are the looks they dislike. Read More »
Our survey found 75% of people find a partner who cooks more attractive, and 90% say cooking together makes a relationship better. Is it a dealbreaker? Read More »
We polled 1,000-plus single Gen Zers and millennials: 43% avoid dating entirely because of anxiety, and 47% say it's why they're still single. Read More »
In a survey of 900-plus Americans, 31% say they love their pet more than their partner, while 1 in 10 have dumped a date over a pet's disapproval. Read More »
Over half of 500-plus Americans surveyed check zodiac compatibility before a first date, but signs rarely decide whether they pursue someone. Read More »
3,000 women picked one word for the men in their state. Hardworking topped the list, while others called their men respectful, charming, loyal or kind. Read More »
In a study of 500 Americans, half admit to a sexual fetish, yet many are unsure about sharing their desires. Here's why talking openly leads to better sex. Read More »
Friends with benefits can bring freedom and fun, but also mixed signals and one-sided feelings. Here are the perks, the risks, and tips to keep it healthy. Read More »
A survey of 3,000 American men ranks the dishes most likely to win them over, led by New York cheesecake, the Philly cheesesteak and Detroit-style pizza. Read More »
A survey of Americans on body hair: 40% favor keeping it natural, over 9 in 10 care about a partner's grooming, and women feel judged more often than men. Read More »
Practical steps to stay safe while dating, from spotting catfish and financial scams online to setting boundaries and planning a first in-person meetup. Read More »
A survey of 950-plus U.S. singles finds 53% see splitting the first-date bill as the new normal. See how views differ by gender and generation. Read More »
Is AdultFriendFinder legit? How the hookup site works, its history and safety tools, profile verification, tips for avoiding trouble, and 3 alternatives. Read More »




















