Editor’s Spotlight
Think of us as a digital dating wingman. We've sourced tips from our experts on where to go, what to say, and how to make something happen with your crush. Our goal is to deliver actionable insights for any and all dating needs.
Featured Today
Do Lesbians Have a Harder Time With Online Dating?
By:
Editor:
Why can dating apps feel tougher for lesbians? H4M Matchmaking founder Tammy Shaklee walks through four challenges, like a smaller pool, and how to ease them. Read More»
After Artemis II, one question gets little attention: how will humans have sex and babies... Read Study »
Want commitment, not a fling? A writer who met her husband on Bumble shows how to spot... Read Study »
China's one-child policy, in force from 1979 to 2015, left men outnumbering women. Here's... Read Study »
Meet Our Team
Featuring daily articles from renowned experts, Q&A sessions, and research studies, The Candid Date covers all things dating, from first-date nerves and texting etiquette to finding the dating site or app that fits you.
Eight love and relationship self-help books worth reading, including Student of Love, Date... Read Study »
Psychologist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish answers in-law questions: mistakes at family gatherings,... Read Study »
Love has a science. Four reasons relationship research matters, from its link to happiness... Read Study »
Introvert-extrovert couples can last. A writer four-plus years into one such pairing and... Read Study »
A future faker talks up a life together but never follows through. Spot five signs, how... Read Study »
Emmy-nominated filmmaker and podcast host Laterras R. Whitfield on dating as a single dad:... Read Study »
Editor’s Spotlight Topics
Stay up to date with the latest news in dating. Browse our most popular topics below where you'll find the latest articles in each category written by our team of dating experts and editors.
Online Dating Tips
Online dating places a large and accessible pool of daters at our fingertips. While you can receive messages from all sorts of people, finding the right match is a different story. If you need help adjusting your online dating game, look to our articles below. Knowing how to date online properly can transform your experience tremendously. And we give you the tips to stand out, so you can avoid being a tiny needle in a massive haystack. Our articles focus on tips and strategies that daters can leverage to find the right connections online, from building an authentic dating profile to recognizing compatibility. We aren’t biased or anything. But we offer the best advice on this side of the internet to help any dater feel more confident in today’s fast-paced online dating environment because that’s how we designed our content. Our content covers a wide range of topics, from writing the perfect conversation starter to setting healthy boundaries. You’ll read about dating safety, compatibility, and red flag awareness, so you can avoid any approaching pitfalls. Our experts teach you how to break the ice and get to that first date, so you won’t be left swiping endlessly. Maximize your online dating experience and find the right matches with these guides.
Date Ideas
Inspiration lives here. Instead of waiting around for a lightbulb moment, check out our best recommendations for fun places to go and things to do other than typical dinner dates. We've curated a perfect mix of date ideas for any occasion or mood. Get date ideas for every season, budget, holiday, and even specific cities. Thinking about double dates? We have the perfect recipe for cooking up a successful double date with friends. Our content also dives into what makes a bad date, so you can avoid landing on someone’s dreaded “worst dates” list. Our articles offer fresh ideas and creative ways to spend quality time with a partner, whether you’re meeting for the first time or have been together for years. Come on, it’s time to create some lasting memories. Look through our many, many guides to find inspo and create the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable date, whether you’re celebrating a milestone anniversary or just getting to know someone.
Self-Worth & Confidence
The following articles focus on bolstering self-esteem and self-care in dating. Dating is all about putting yourself out there, which can be scary, but you don't have to put on a suit of armor to feel secure while making new connections. We are here to help you feel confident in yourself through the ups and downs of dating. Our experts say confidence is one of the most attractive traits a person can have, especially in dating. Since sharing is caring and gatekeeping isn’t our motto, our experts have written tons of articles to show you exactly how to achieve it. Our guides empower readers to build their self-worth, with insights from experienced matchmakers, dating coaches, and therapists. We offer advice to help readers overcome insecurity and tap into their true potential in and out of the dating world. You’ll find articles that encourage personal growth, bold moves, self-care, and belief in one’s value, so you can date with the utmost confidence and speak to your truth. Tackle self-confidence issues head-on with these informational step-by-step resources. No shrinking, no second-guessing.
Attraction
What draws two people to each other? Our articles address this question with a mix of studies, expert guides, and personal experience. Better yet, our guides don’t only cover what it takes to attract someone, but also what it takes to make the attraction last. When talking about attraction, we’re covering everything from the first meeting of eyes across a crowded room to reinvigorating things in the bedroom after a slump. Attraction isn’t one-size-fits-all. That’s why our experts offer broad, comprehensive insights for every step of the journey. Below, we explore the dynamics of physical, emotional, or intellectual attraction — from butterflies to deep bonds. Most importantly, you’ll learn the signs of attraction, so you can attract the right person the right way. Whether you’re curious about the first spark or trying to keep the flame burning, our content will offer you the information you need to explore the full spectrum of human attraction.
Red Flags
“I love spotting red flags,” said no one ever. So we want to help you spot them early in dating or relationships. That way, you won’t waste your precious time on the wrong someone. Whether you just started texting someone, are going on a first date, or are months into a relationship that just feels off, we have the tools to help you spot the warning signs or troubling behavior you may be missing. To be frank, red flags can be sneaky little things and hard to detect, especially if you’re really digging someone. So let us be your barometer. Read about common red flags, such as love bombing and gaslighting, so you can understand what they are and how they appear. In no time, you’ll learn to identify toxic patterns and red flags in real time, as well as how to take action with confidence. We did the research, so you can kick bad dates to the curb.
Commitment
They say the first step is the hardest. But that’s not always true in the world of dating. Asking someone on a first date can often feel less daunting than asking for exclusivity. Our articles focus on the transition from casual dating to exclusive relationships, so daters can transition with confidence. Read about what it takes to form long-term partnerships, strengthen bonds, and date for marriage. Experts explore and discuss signs of readiness in you and your partner and how to handle the fears that can come with getting serious. Need to know how to discuss labels or plan for the future? We cover that too. Our advice will help you find all you need to build a foundation that truly lasts, including conflict resolution, boundaries, and intimacy. Learn more from our experts about establishing rock-solid relationships, building trust, and doing the emotional work needed for a real commitment.
